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Reflections wednesday - there was a time not too long ago that i would look in the mirror and say to myself that i couldn't do or be or say something. the main message to myself when i looked in the mirror was "you can't". every day folks. no wonder i looked and felt like shit. when i look in the mirror today, i am not an idiot and all smiles and be like "you can do anything." i look in the mirror and say, "look how far you've come. what's next?" then when the voice of fear says, "you can't cuz you're too old or too f*t or too single or you've never done that before" my real voice says, "i will find a way. watch me." i never had my own business and now i do and it's a successful one. i never felt good in my body and now i do. i never wrote a book and i am halfway through my second. i have never done a podcast but will be launching one this new year. when fear says "you can't" let your real voice respond "watch me." namaste .
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comment 3 star 24 10 minutes ago

Regardless of what happens to you, what will make or break you is the language you use to describe what you’re experiencing. while being dramatic may have a secondary gain, it only ultimately increases the intensity of negative feelings that you are having. so look at the words you use and look at how else you could describe it and see how that works. .
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comment 2 star 48 Yesterday

Be sure to choose the tealights that don't flicker when you are trying to bring ambiance to your dollar spot ceramic home!! 😂🤣😂🤣 warm and cozy 101!! #thishyggehome
#homebodiesunited
#findmehere #areyouhereyet
#homesweethome

comment 1 star 27 Yesterday

#repost @drtonyortega
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raw af monday - hi all. hope you had a blast over the weekend. i wouldn't call mine a blast but another life experience lesson i want to share. so as some of you may now, my boy logan developed a uti. i also developed an allergic reaction to the deodarant i was using and my armpits have been quite uncomfortable. add to this, i got ghosted on a second date with someone i really liked. so here's the thing, when s**t like this happens - what words are you using to describe the event or what you are feeling? i was hearing myself say s**t like "overwhelming" or "intolerable" or "incomprehensible." i immediately stopped myself because i know this is the voice of fear trying to get me back. i simply changed the language to "stressful" or "uncomfortable" or "understandable" and i didn't go down the rabbit hole of fear. change one word and you can change your whole perspective. try it out and let me know. namaste. .
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comment 0 star 57 Yesterday

Raw af monday - hi all. hope you had a blast over the weekend. i wouldn't call mine a blast but another life experience lesson i want to share. so as some of you may now, my boy logan developed a uti. i also developed an allergic reaction to the deodarant i was using and my armpits have been quite uncomfortable. add to this, i got ghosted on a second date with someone i really liked. so here's the thing, when s**t like this happens - what words are you using to describe the event or what you are feeling? i was hearing myself say s**t like "overwhelming" or "intolerable" or "incomprehensible." i immediately stopped myself because i know this is the voice of fear trying to get me back. i simply changed the language to "stressful" or "uncomfortable" or "understandable" and i didn't go down the rabbit hole of fear. change one word and you can change your whole perspective. try it out and let me know. namaste. .
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#gaylatino #gaybear  #gaylove #spirituality #psychotherapy #ishehereyetbook #lgbt #lgbtq #gayshrink #ishehereyet #betheonelife #betheone #beingtheone #gaynewyork #gaylosangeles  #gaypride  #gaytherapy #writersofig #gaysofig #motivation #selfhelp #personaldevelopment #speakup #selfimprovement #healing #selfcare #areyouhereyet #s**u

comment 4 star 49 Yesterday

We get to spend the holidays with both of our families this year!!! woooohoooo! #mostwonderfultimeoftheyear #family #wheredidtheyeargo #areyouhereyet #americanaussiechristmas

comment 1 star 67 2 days ago

Tea time... @fosterrun and i were talking about more tea flavor options for our guests.. i picked up his fave ginger peach today and ofcourse i always have peppermint and earl gray in stock.. i also have matcha and lemonbalm at the ready. 😋😋😋😋😋😋😋😋😋😋
what are some tea flavors you love to have plenty of!! if someone offered you coffee or tea, which would you love to tinkslurp the most?? #ohdarlingletsbehomebodies
#homebody #tinkslurp #welcome #thishyggehome #cozy #tea #coffee #comfort #cupofjoy #findmehere #areyouhereyet

comment 3 star 14 2 days ago

Hi loves. sorry for the lack of action today. been up since 4:45am as my cat, logan, was not feeling well and he was in the er by 7. it's just a uti apparently so he should be his normal entitled self soon. nothing freaks me out than when he gets sick. i know that my mind goes towards, "this can't be happening" or "i can't handle this alone" or "i have to do everything to solve it." this my friends is my control issues coming to the forefront. instead of freaking out that logan is on his deathbed, i need to stop fighting what's right in front of me and do what i know that i can and just surrender the outcome. i can take all the action i want, doesn't guarentee outcomes. there's an old aa saying, "plan the plan but don't plan the outcome." namaste. .
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comment 9 star 83 4 days ago

We ❤️ aloha fridays! especially when there’s no school til tuesday!
have a sweet one!
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cotton cheesecake line up:
pumpkin pie
strawberry cream
dark choco blueberry cream cheese
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#alohabaked #minisweets #kauai #kauaisweets #hawaii #cottoncheesecake #japanesecottoncheesecake #alohafriday #noworktiltuesday #pauhana #areyouhereyet #howaboutnow #howaboutnow

comment 4 star 97 5 days ago

Looking toward the weekend like.....👀👀👀 #areyouhereyet #comegetme #imready 😂😂😂⠀
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this weekend is all about rest; i’ve been so busy at work all week that i am so ready to relax. no one better bother me either 😂⠀
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#relax #weekendvibes #fridayfeels #happyfriday #friyay #lovemylife #travel #adventure #vibes #happygirl #nashville #centennialpark #beautiful #views #southflorida #homegrown #delraybeach #lakeworth #westpalmbeach #wanderlust #travelvibes #travelfeels #vacation #explorer #parthenon #nature #worldtraveler

comment 3 star 76 5 days ago

Do you want to be right or do you want to be happy? sorry boo, you can't have both most of the time. folks get so triggered by wanting and needing to be right. it happens to me here on social media. sometimes we need to come from a place of peace and really agree to disagree and end up being happier. thoughts? .
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#gaylatino #gaybear  #gaylove #spirituality #psychotherapy #ishehereyetbook #lgbt #lgbtq #gayshrink #ishehereyet #betheonelife #betheone #beingtheone #gaynewyork #gaylosangeles  #gaypride  #gaytherapy #writersofig #gaysofig #motivation #selfhelp #personaldevelopment #speakup #selfimprovement #healing #selfcare #areyouhereyet #s**u

comment 4 star 73 6 days ago

Reflections: hi all. happy wednesday. who's excited that we have the house back? i am. anyway, don't want to make this a political post. i want to stay on the concept of reflections for wednesdays. when you look in the mirror or in just your day to day life, what do you tell yourself? no, not the statements. the words that you use. do you use words like depressed, obese, or devastating when you can easily say sad, overweight or it just plain sucks. the words we use hold so much power. they add to our feelings. they can make us feel better or worse. they can empower or disempower you. choose your words wisely. a simple word can make or break you. .
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#gaylatino #gaybear  #gaylove #spirituality #psychotherapy #daddyaf #gaydaddy #ishehereyetbook #lgbt #lgbtq #gayshrink #gaycoach #ishehereyet #betheonelife #betheone #gaymenscoach  #gaynewyork #gaylosangeles  #gaypride #areyouhereyet  #gaytherapy #writersofig #stfu #daddy  #gay🌈 #gay👬#gaysofinsta #gaysofig #👬 #👨‍❤️‍👨

comment 14 star 142 1 weeks ago

Sorry guys. no inspirational message or raw reflections or shirtless selfies today. i was not raised on a very political household and only starting caring as an adult. we are at a critical juncture in the united states with a would be tyrant in office spreading fear and hate. we need to speak up and vote. vote for peace. vote for love. gays, vote for the right to continue to have s*x and get married (cuz ya know pence is gonna us all in gas chambers). there is only one thing we ever control, the choices we make. vote please. i will after work today. namaste. .
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#gaylatino #gaybear  #gaylove #spirituality #psychotherapy #daddyaf #gaydaddy #ishehereyetbook #lgbt #lgbtq #gayshrink #gaycoach #ishehereyet #betheonelife #betheone #gaymenscoach  #gaynewyork #gaylosangeles  #gaypride #areyouhereyet  #gaytherapy #writersofig #stfu #daddy  #gay🌈 #gay👬#gaysofinsta #gaysofig #👬 #👨‍❤️‍👨

comment 1 star 65 1 weeks ago

Raw af monday : hope you had a lovely weekend. i sure did. one thing i did was have a session with my amazing spiritual coach. something came up that i wanted to share because i think it affects so many of us. i will call it the if...then... syndrome. no, not the amazing #idinamenzel musical of the same name. i am talking about how we determine our self-worth based on external things happening. if he calls me back and wants another date then i am desirable. how much of our lives are consumed by the if...then... syndrome? being the person you want to be with requires knowing who we are regardless of outside conditions verifying or not verifying that. know your worth solely on who you are. let’s discuss. namaste .
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#gaylatino #gaybear  #gaylove #spirituality #psychotherapy #ishehereyetbook #lgbt #lgbtq #gayshrink #ishehereyet #betheonelife #betheone #beingtheone #gaynewyork #gaylosangeles  #gaypride  #gaytherapy #writersofig #gaysofig #motivation #selfhelp #personaldevelopment #speakup #selfimprovement #healing #selfcare #areyouhereyet #s**u

comment 5 star 68 2 weeks ago

Waiting for my man to get here like 😗😗🤗🤗♥️♥️⛱🕛 @trevorknowlesyyc @hawkstrainingacademy
#grateful#missingyou#areyouhereyet#family#esposas#mexico#playacarbeach💦👙😎#sun#sand#beach#xamanha#quintanaroo#playacar#playadelcarmen#love#cantwait#❤️#mytanisdarkerthanyours#livingmybestlife

comment 0 star 24 2 weeks ago

Grandma just told me that #momanddad are coming home today! #yay #areyouhereyet #cantwaittoseeyou #missyou ❤️

comment 0 star 29 2 weeks ago